Transforming Your Life
I was separated at 29, divorced by 32 after a long court battle that only caused severe hurt, pain, trauma and anger.
At 35, I was tired of living the life I had been living, struggling, pushing through, approaching each day the same and just doing the things that I had to do in order to survive, playing the same script. I was tired, depressed, lacked support and didn't know what to do.
I am a spiritual being, a mystic, empath and intuitive. I pray, I meditate. I pulled an Oracle Card one night during prayer asking for guidance and the card I pulled was "Inspiration" and the message included one of being acutely aware of the signs my guides were sending me as there was things I was missing. One important guiding factor was to watch for signs of a bumblebee, whether it was pictures I come across, items in stores, or even someone dressed in a bumblebee costume!
As the days proceeded, I was following a Coach who had some really valuable content that I enjoyed watching, never really thought of hiring a personal coach, then she started posting bumble bees! Everywhere! In her stories, on her posts, she was a bumble connector bee! She was following her passion and her light when she attracted me, and she was just what I needed to shift my life.
I didn’t know that Life Coach’s were a thing at that time, sure there are sport coach’s, fitness coach’s, tutor’s etc, but a life coach!? The wildest thing, and she’s the reason I became a Certified Coach myself. I joined her 3.5 month group program where myself and seven other individuals worked to become our best selves. These seven people including my coach were my lifeline and support building a healthier more aligned life. I learned about my inner child, my limiting beliefs (no idea this was a thing!), the stories I chose to live in and that I have a choice to change my narrative. I didn’t need to be stuck in victim. I learned how to feel feelings I had internalized and how to express them in a healthy way, (still learn everyday!) I learned what dreaming feels like, what becoming my best friend feels like, a concept lost throughout my years. I started recognizing when I was stomping out my own fire and getting in my own way with my own fears, insecurities and stories!
I learned how to believe in myself - I never did before, I treated myself poorly because the message I received was I never enough, I didn’t know there was a different way. I reinforced that belief by putting myself in situations (unconsciously) where people would hurt me (because that felt normal), I created a pattern of doubt, of not being good enough, and feeling powerless and hurt. It was the only thing I knew how to do, and I kept getting stuck in a loop of self defeating thoughts, depression and anxiety not knowing I was doing it to myself.
I think all humans feel this on some level, it’s not until we become aware of what we are actually doing that we then have the power and choice to change it. This takes commitment, emotional intelligence, and self awareness. This is why I do the work I do supporting Women through big life transitions, I know what it is like to feel lost, alone and afraid. I gift you my knowledge that has taken me years to accumulate, so you don’t have to struggle and wonder for as long as I did. I have the keys and I want every woman in my line of sight to claim their life back, unapologetically!
Naturally, my 20 year career in finance, enables me to empower you to take control of your finances, which is a big deal while in the throws of transition and creating a new life! My coaching expertise then supports your new path, enhancing your money mindset, worth, and getting you unstuck!
How is this all connected you might ask? You will only accept what you think and feel you deserve. If you feel like shit, disrespect your body, lack boundaries, confidence and self awareness you will stay stuck in a unfulfilled life, no doubt about it. You will accept the unhappy and unfulfilling career, you will continue to experience toxic relationship and friendships like an old dirty shirt continuing to ask yourself why, you will seek coping mechanisms with terrible money and life habits. You will slowly rot and never know what you need or live your full potential, because this is the only way you’ve ever lived and the only way you know how!
When you treat yourself with love by eating healthy food, working on your esteem, beliefs, goals and habits, while growing your emotional intelligence, you are sending a very definite signal to the universe you are not f***ing around and demand better! You learn your boundaries and how to communicate them, you do not allow people to take advantage of you or allow misaligned people into your life. No more excuses for their shitty behaviour or your behaviour that used to accept it! Instead, you will rise up attracting strong healthy people who are supportive, inspiring, growth orientated, and encourage you to see the positive. You start accepting what you truly want in your life, which means inner richness, fulfilment and overall life alignment!
My desire is to build relationships and educate women who are on their healing journey and understand that monetary wealth is only a piece of our wholeness, (a very important piece!) I empower you and show you how to make smart financial decisions all while becoming your best self.
By getting curious about your money story, limiting beliefs, and false narratives you build a foundation of strength, resilience, empowerment and love that provides you the courage and confidence you need to live out the big dreams you have!
Do you need some extra support? Please book in a “Let’s Connect” chat. Go to my contact page and scroll to the bottom where it says “Book with Kimberly.”